Your Day of Independence

  How you spend your independence day this year is completely up to you. Know this, it can be a positive, uplifting experience. It’s all up to you. You can be with a large group of people, a smaller group, or get zen and go at it alone. The choice is yours. If you are […]

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Love Yourself this Valentine’s Day

“Whether you’re single or coupled, love yourself and those around you on Valentine’s Day.” – Allison Pescosolido M.A.

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Be My Last Minute Valentine

Love is in the air, floating around in the form of cartoon cupids and crepe-paper hearts. Whether in a new relationship or seeking something special for your established relationship, Valentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to express love and gratitude. This time of the year clients ask me questions about what they should give as […]

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Holiday Detox

Join us, March 28-30, for our Relationship Cleanse at the Esalen Institute in Big Sur. Divorce and the Holidays – Time to Detox As the holidays approach, there may be some stress about your new life circumstances. You may wish that you had someone special to share the holidays with, or maybe you have more […]


Tips for Dealing with Your Ex’s New Other

Accept and Move On: The first step in maintaining a friendship with the new person in your ex’s life is to accept that your marriage has ended and acknowledge that both of you are moving on. Release yourself from the past to find peace in the present. Act with Integrity: Make kindness your language. If […]


Heartbreak Detox on Frontier Magazine

Divorce Detox™ was interviewed by Frontier Magazine last month. Read the article to find out: Why so many couples break up before Valentine’s Day How to take the pressure off Valentine’s Day 10 Ways to get over a break up in a healthy manner and more…