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Love After Love, Love after Divorce

Love After Love (by Derek Walcott, recipient of the 1992 Nobel Prize in Literature), is a reminder that you are enough.   The time will come when, with elation, you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror, and each will smile at the other’s welcome,   and say sit here. […]

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How to Ask for Help, Part II: 4 Steps to Getting the Help You Need

This is Part 2 in the series “How to Ask for Help“.  To read Part 1, click here. How do you ask for help with an issue the general public finds awkward at best, repugnant at worst? Although divorce is common in the US, the subject is still quite taboo. In fact, because of the […]

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A Day of Independence: Your First 4th of July After Divorce

What to do on the 4th of July during your divorce transition.

Valentine’s Divorce

Valentines Day is one of the worst days of the year for those going through separation or divorce. Hearts are in the air, store windows are plastered with pink and red, chocolates and roses are prominently displayed for purchase in grocery stores. Romance and love seem to be the only possibility during this time leaving […]