The Loneliness Monster

Don't let divorce turn your heart to stone. Start building community by volunteering for a worthy organization. - Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Don’t let divorce turn your heart to stone. Start building community by volunteering for a worthy organization. – Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Breakups and Divorce can be lonely but they don’t have to be. Research shows that being proactive with your activities relieves suffering and promotes overall emotional healing.

Defeat Divorce Fears

Defeat your fears. Rely on facts instead of fear and fantasy. - Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Defeat your fears. Rely on facts instead of fear and fantasy. – Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Don’t let the monsters of life get you down. Your imagination makes fears seem bigger than life. Start slaying the dragons with a healthy dose of reality.

Make a Divorce Difference

Make a positive difference in your children's lives. Act and speak about your co-=parent with respect and integrity. - Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

“Make a positive difference in your children’s lives. Act and speak about your co-parent with respect and integrity.”
- Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Set the standard for behavior by showing your children how to act through adversity. Be a hero for yourself and a role model for your children.

Color Your New Normal

Brighten up your life with a splash of color. Repaint a wall or add a few accent pieces. - Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

“Brighten up your life with a splash of color. Repaint a wall or add a few accent pieces.” – Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

Become interested in your own life again. Explore your options and find ways to brighten up your surroundings.

Listen in Order to Love

Listen for the sake of listening. Unless specifically asked, don't offer a solution. - Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

“Listen for the sake of listening. Unless specifically asked, don’t offer a solution.” – Allison Pescosolido, M.A.

One of the most powerful tools in your relationship arsenal is listening.